If you ever fall in love with someone who has faced pain and the loss of love, someone who looks at things in a manner that might not seem normal or very common, someone who is in love with words and stories, someone who is quiet when in pain and in tears, when in anger, someone who has lost a dear one, someone who is just not the regular happy soul. You need to realise that it is going to be really hard for you to stay with them. Hard, yes, but beautiful too.
These people will want more of everything. More love, more attention, more time, more care and more patience. At times the constant need for attention and care will get on your nerves, but at that moment, remember to think about all that they have done for you even when you never asked for it. They demand more in life, not just from you, but from life too. But in return, they will leave no stone unturned to return the same emotions on a much larger scale.
They are not going to be super confident people with exceptional love for self. They need a bit of push every now and then. They need a dose of motivation on a regular basis. They need to be reminded of their worth. They need to be told about how amazing they are. They tend to compare themselves to the world and then move back to their cocoon thinking low about themselves.
They are loners. They are emotional wrecks too. They will demand a lot of silence and a lot of empty space. That's how they rejuvenate themselves. They like being at their own company. No, they don't get bored. More than often, they are lost in their own thoughts, making up scenarios that do not exist but they wish it did. They are this wild ball of fun in their own heads. They will also explode now and then. Explode into tears, into rudeness, into unwanted sadness, into a weird kind of arrogance. But that is because of the immense amount of overthinking that their brain has been doing. All those overthinking makes them overreact to even the tiniest bit. In those times, do not shout at them. They are already cursing themselves for acting in that manner with you. Just be there, be present to their situation and listen to what they have to say and show them that no matter how many mood swings they have, you are going to be a patient listener to them. That works like magic.
